Hey everyone, it’s Vlad, your go-to proposal photographer and planner in NYC. With 15 years of experience under my belt and over 3,000 marriage proposals captured and organized, I’ve truly seen it all. Today, I want to share some personal tips to help you plan the perfect proposal.
What Should I Do Before I Propose?
Popping the big question is a huge milestone in any relationship. It’s a memory that will be cherished forever, so let’s make sure you get it right. Here are some essential steps to take before you propose, ensuring the moment is as magical and unforgettable as your love story.
Proposal Tips for Guys
1. Know Your Partner’s Preferences
First off, every person is unique, and so are their preferences for a proposal. Here are a few things to consider:
• Public vs. Private Proposal: Does your partner enjoy being surrounded by people, like in a park or at a favorite restaurant? Or do they prefer something more intimate, like a private rooftop?
• Casual vs. Formal Setting: Think about their style. Would they appreciate a casual, laid-back proposal or something more formal and elaborate?
• Modest or Boujee: Is your partner into grand gestures with all the bells and whistles, like a giant “Marry Me” sign, flower hearts, and sparkles? Or do they appreciate simple, heartfelt moments? My team and I can help with either style!
• Ring Preferences: Have an idea of what kind of engagement ring they might like. Check out their jewelry collection or ask close friends or family for advice.
2. Choose the Right Ring
The engagement ring is a symbol of your commitment and love. Make sure you select a ring that suits your partner’s style. Sneak a peek at their jewelry collection or ask their close friends or family for advice. Remember, it’s not just about the size of the diamond but the thought and effort you put into choosing it.
3. Plan the Perfect Setting
The location can make or break your proposal. Choose a place that holds special meaning for both of you. Whether it’s where you had your first date, a scenic spot you both love, or a surprise destination, the setting should enhance the emotional impact of the moment. Think about whether your partner prefers a simple setting or something more elaborate and fancy.
4. Personalize the Proposal
Incorporate personal elements into your proposal to make it unique and memorable. This could be anything from a heartfelt speech, a favorite song, or even a scrapbook of your journey together. The more personal touches you include, the more special the moment will be.
5. Capture the Proposal Moment
Popping the big question is a huge moment, and you want to get it just right. Make sure to capture the moment with beautiful photos. A good photographer can blend in and snap candid shots without disrupting the moment. With 15 years of experience, I specialize in proposal photography, making sure you get keepsakes to cherish forever.
Marriage Proposal Checklist
To make sure everything goes smoothly, use this checklist to plan your proposal:
1. Understand Your Partner’s Preferences:
• Public vs. Private Proposal
• Casual vs. Formal Setting
• Fancy or Humble Proposal
• Preferences on Ring Style
2. Choose the Right Ring:
• Style and Design
• Ring Size
• Consult Close Friends/Family
3. Select the Perfect Location:
• Meaningful Place
• Scenic and Romantic
• Logistically Feasible
4. Personalize the Proposal:
• Include Personal Touches
• Plan a Heartfelt Speech
• Add Elements of Surprise
5. Hire a Professional Photographer:
• Capture High-Quality Photos
• Ensure Candid Moments
• Preserve Memories
6. Plan the Logistics:
• Set the Date and Time
• Make Necessary Reservations
• Prepare for Any Contingencies
7. Be Emotionally Ready:
• Reflect on Your Relationship
• Be Confident and Relaxed
• Prepare for Different Reactions
8. Prepare a Post-Proposal Plan:
• Celebrate the Moment
• Share the News with Loved Ones
• Plan an Engagement Celebration
By following these tips and using this checklist, you’ll ensure that your proposal is a beautifully orchestrated moment, capturing the essence of your love story. Make it a day to remember, with every detail reflecting the unique bond you share with your partner.
Remember, this is the beginning of your forever. Make it count.
