What to Say When You’re Proposing
Picture this: You’re standing there, your heart racing, as you look into the eyes of the person you want to spend forever with. You’ve got a lot of thoughts swirling in your head, but now comes the moment to put them into words. Proposing is one of those rare life moments where time seems to slow down, and every word feels monumental. So, how do you make it count? Here’s how to keep your proposal authentic, heartfelt, and unforgettable.
- Reflect on Your Journey Together
Start by sharing the story of how you met. It could be something like: “From the first time I saw you…” or “Our story started when our paths crossed…” Let them know how meaningful those early moments were and how you felt when you first realized they were special. Remind them of the serendipity that brought you together and how it changed your life.
- Speak About the Turning Point
Move on to when you knew they were “the one.” You might say: “The moment it changed for me was when…” or “I’m reminded of the day we…” Reflect on those pivotal moments that made you realize your love was something truly extraordinary. Share how looking back on those times helps you appreciate your journey together even more.
- Express Your Feelings
Now, let them know how you feel. Use phrases like: “When I think about you, I’m so grateful for…” or “You’re the one because…” Talk about the qualities that make them irreplaceable in your life. Express the deep gratitude and love you have for them and how they’ve made your life better.
- Paint a Picture of Your Future Together
Finally, share your vision for the future. You could say: “This is just the beginning, and I’m looking forward to…” or “Here’s what I promise you…” Talk about the life you envision building together, whether it’s adventures, a home filled with love, or simply sharing everyday joys. Let them see the beautiful future you want to create with them.
- Keep It Real and Emotional
Remember, this moment is about being genuine. Don’t worry if your voice shakes or if you stumble over your words—that’s what makes it real. Be yourself and let your emotions shine through. Your partner loves you for who you are, and that’s exactly who they want to hear from.
And of course, end with the question that changes everything: “Will you marry me?”
When it comes down to it, proposing is about more than just words. It’s about sharing your heart, your hopes, and your future with the person you love. So, trust yourself, speak from your soul, and let the moment be as unique as the love you share.
Let’s Plan Your Perfect Proposal
I’m Vlad Leto, a photographer and planner based in New York City. I specialize in helping couples create the perfect proposal, from choosing the right location to capturing the moment. If you’re ready to make your proposal unforgettable, reach out to me, and let’s start planning.
